The Relationship Principles: Protect Your Vibe at All Cost
The more I grew up, the more I noticed how important it is to surround myself with the right people.
When I was mentally weak and lonely, I needed attention and emotional outlet, those with the same vibe took me and we fed each other into bad habits — time wasted reminiscing and blaming, lingering in the past.
When I consciously spent more time with people who were strong and inspiring, I learned to be independent and to get in touch with myself, I became stronger and was able to hold my ground more firmly.
There is a natural aura for everyone, but the thing is, bad vibes attract bad vibes, and good vibes attract everything, including people carrying toxicity, lurking, and trying to get a share of your good vibe.
I’ve come up with some basic principles for myself when it comes to identifying friends, just sharing here:
Only spend time, give energy and attention to people who are:
- Emotionally resilient— Everyone goes through difficult times, that’s what friends are for, but we need to be independent to solve our own problems and bounce back after down time…
