haha, I lol'ed at this part, it's so true that most of the writing advice here on Medium are only based on personal experience that may or may not apply in everybody's case.

IMO reading too much advices either confuses writers or set their expectations too high, especially for those who just want to get on the fast lane.

The only tips I stick to is to be consistent, write a LOT, and learn from your own experience. But 100% agree with you on your points here, nice one Benya!